~ Jesus would never try to control or destroy your life. When Jesus tells you to do something, there is no need to ask others for their opinion. There is no need to ‘feel out’ what other people think. There is no need to confer. There is no announcement for approval needed to be made to others. When Jesus tells you to do something, with your free will, you just do it.
2nd Corinthians 3:17 Now the Lord is that Spirit: And where the Spirit of the Lord is, there is liberty.
Romans 6:16 Know ye not, that to whom ye yield yourselves servants to obey; his servants ye are to whom ye obey; whether of sin unto death, or of obedience unto righteousness?